Reason #1

You have so much to do, that you need a structure and routine in your life to keep it going – the work related tasks, the hundreds of errands you keep running, the duties around family and household, and well, you also would love to take care about yourself in some way.
And then, all this structure and routine often feels suffocating – because at the end there is no space left for just being and for natural flow, and you often feel like a slave of your own life.

Or maybe it is the structure of your work environment, the rigid processes, the “5/7 workdays” that feels enough by Thursday the latest, the “9-to-5 working hours” that sounds like a dream, as reality is more than that – maybe this structure feels like a golden cage, lacking the freedom you desire.

Reason #2

You not only fulfill the tasks, you nail it all with perfection. Overperforming is your second nature, but you rarely get praised – everyone knows you are going to deliver a peak performance again and again anyways. Your 50% is someone else´s 100% – and it totally can frustrate you, if you see others being lazy, or simply stupid.

Reason #3

Overgiving is your 3rd “superpower”. You help – even if you are not asked to, because you see what can be done better. You provide – because it is easier to make it by yourself then to explain to your colleague how to do it. And you provide again – because for you it isn't a problem to book that hotel and buy those flytickets. You are skilled in this type of search anyways, and also, somehow you have such a partner (again?) who can´t really afford to take you somewhere fancy.

Reason #4

Because you keep attracting men, who are… “less”. Less smart, less purpose driven, often less wealthy, you name it. Some alpha women are happy with strong beta men, they complement each other beautifully.
But somehow, this is not your case. You yearn for a strong partner – the one, who you can rely on, who you can truly respect. Yet, the reality is, that you can´t find such – so you stay single, or you stay with the one, who is at least good in bed.

Reason #5

If you are in a relationship, it's you who drives it all. Maybe it was you, who initiated the first date. Maybe it was you who asked him after several months, where you are at. Or maybe, he was the proactive one at the beginning, but slowly you have taken over the drive. So now it´s you, who not only book those holidays, but do the emotional labour as well – for you both. Because – and this is important, read it carefully: you believe that you are responsible not only for yourself, but for everyone close to you. For their wellbeing, feelings, even for their growth. And maybe, you are living this belief in your relationship already for ages.

Reason #6

And what about your health? If you live fully at least one of the above patterns, fatigue is only one thing that can way too often define your days.
Feeling drained out and (maybe except for summer) often overwhelmed; feeling a certain inner emptiness; or having physical symptoms such as headaches, recurring inflammation or strange accidents – is normal if you tick the boxes above.
The “next level” is then when your lifestyle affects (or stops) your period, or leads you to your burnout – starting with symptoms such as sleeping and eating issues, or anxiety.

Reason #7

You might be that lucky women, who has NON OF THE ABOVE patterns present in her life, but you are curious about the topic of Inner Polarity, because you would love to cultivate consciously the relationship between your Inner Woman and Inner Man, because you would love to know more about your feminine and masculine qualities.